11 December 2010

king kumar!




 



 

  


 


Kumar is quite a character; the youngest of the 51 Children in the Orphanage, at the age of three he practically runs the place.  The regular rules do not apply to Kumar; he has created his own order of operations and sticks to his peculiar routine.  His most dedicated efforts revolve around food.  He eats from the same bowl for every meal.  Everyone else chooses a plate from the pile, but not Kumar.  He hides his bowl around the Home and dashes off at meal time to recover it in private.  Should another Child find his coveted bowl and attempt to eat from it, Kumar will refuse to eat the meal at hand.  No other plate will do, a substitute bowl is unacceptable.  He would rather go hungry than eat from an another dish.  With the legendary bowl in hand, Kumar aims to be first in the serving line for rice.  Should this highly sought position be snatched by one of his 50 siblings, Kumar insists on being served dead last.  He will slowly walk to the end of the line and wait patiently, all three years of him, to be served.  Once his bowl is filled, he joins the seated line of Children on the ground and covers his lips with his index finger - remaining in absolute silence, as if gesturing hush, until everyone is served, seated, and ready to pray in unison.  If someone asks him a question during this period of roughly ten minutes, he ignores their inquiry.  He remains focused, finger to lips, rarely blinking, waiting to pray.  

During a recent special dinner each Child was given a hard boiled egg - good protein and a delicacy to them - along with their rice and rasam (broth).  Kumar carefully hid his egg between his legs as he ate and somehow managed to sneak it into his shirt pocket before the meal was over.  As he was washing his plate after dinner, he pulled the egg out of his pocket and began to rinse it in water.  The Children loved this!  They quickly told on him and he was questioned about the egg.  His response - he was saving it for later.  Apparently this is a recurring offense; he has been known to hide his egg and get up in the middle of the night to eat it.  Kumar’s version of a midnight snack. 

The kid is HUNGRY!  Last week the new puppy, Topsy, was creating a commotion - growling, barking, squealing - so I went outside to investigate.  There was Kumar.  Squatting down eating from the dog’s bowl. 

He pesters and taunts everyone, but if anyone dares to retaliate he’s a puddle of tears.  He follows me everywhere.  He falls asleep with this legs crossed.  He snores.  He’s the first one up in the morning when I wake up all the Children and always runs to give me a big hug.  He can count to 15 in English, but without fail leaves out the number eight.  He walks his brothers and sisters to school each morning and then returns Home to go through their bags of belongings, choosing their choice clothes, blankets, and bangles for his day of play.  And new this week . . . he refuses to let me give him a cold water cup bath each morning unless I sing to him.  King Kumar.  He’s an orphan in India.  He’s three. 

03 December 2010

a wonderful welcome . . . a world away!



After 36+ hours of travel, we arrived in southeastern India and received a wonderful welcome from the Children and Staff of the Orphanage.  Each of the 50 Children had a handful of orange flower petals to throw over us as we passed as well as flowers to place in our hands.  It was an overwhelming experience!  I wanted to stop and greet each child, but was hurried along to keep the welcome ceremony moving.

During our initial email correspondence, I included several pictures of myself at the request of the Staff.  They chose the picture below for the welcome banner and it confused the kids a bit . . . as they kept asking where my cap was in Telugu, their language, when we arrived?!  John Samuel, the Director of the Orphanage, commented that he was going to have to buy a cap for me to wear (as I didn't pack one) because the kids couldn't get over the fact that I didn't wear a cap at all times. 


Shortly after we arrived, breakfast was served - Rice and Bananas. 
The Boys lining up for food in their new "civil" uniforms.


We spent the rest of the morning getting to know each other - playing games, singing songs, and answering questions with the Children (with the Director serving as translator).  There were many many smiles all around.  All though they were very shy at first, they quickly warmed up to us and soon wouldn't leave our sides.  They were particularly interested in my camera and didn't understand the need to stand back, creating some distance, to be in a photo - many comical pictures resulted. 





30 November 2010

a late start

I apologize for the delayed creation of this Blog - I've been receiving many emails from friends and family wanting updates on my life in India - thank you, thank you.  India is AMAZING . . . but as can be expected in Third World counties - technology is challenging, internet is slow (when available) and solutions are amusing.  I hope to add several posts in the next few days to catch you up on my last four weeks adjusting to life here in the Orphanage.  While routine posting is certainly one of my many goals with this Blog, it could be a difficult goal - as I've already learned all too well - India operates on IST (Indian Slow Time) and minutes can turn into hours, hours into days and days into weeks.  Remain loose.